Sunday, February 15, 2009

Pain of a small town father...

Hi folks, feels gud to be back after so many days, was busy with work. So this post is about a poem my baba wrote, he wasn't fine from past few weeks, and neither of me or my young bro could go to Raipur to see him and take him to a Doctor, none of us could get leave. I got busy with my work and shanu(my bro) was busy with his college(which resembles very close to military school). So at the end we were frustated and tensed, and my parents were helpless. So here it goes, a small wrk from Mr. N.K.Roy, my papa..

Budhape ne di dastak, majbur sharir hua natmastak
paristhitia parikul bani, bimari ne kisi ki na suni
kamjor larkharate doctor ke pass gaye, dhakka gali siwa kuch na paaye
doctor ne jawaab diya kal aana,MRI aur saari jaanch kara lana
hum kehte gaye aur udhar parchi ban kar taiyaar,
hum samajh gaye doctor ne kar diya vaayapar
larkharate jhaanch sabhi kar aaya, kewal patni ka kandha saath aaya
bacchhe durasth, padhai ko majboor, 
chah kar na kuch kar sake, chutti na hui manjoor
kaha padhai se nikale jaaoge, fir shaayad naukri kabhi na paaoge
shaayad yehi aaj ka jeevan hai, karo sangharsh rahe santosh yehi amulya dhan hai....


The idea to post this was to tell the plight of parents and their children, who come from small towns to big cities in search of a good career and a stable future. Somewhere down the line we are so much focused about our future and so much in binding with it, that we tend to forget our past, place from where we came from. But I guess, putting your career at stake isn't a good idea  either, and this is the dilemma of all of us guys who as MNS puts it are 'outsiders' or 'migrants', we all at times, are in so called 'dharamsankat' as to how to choose between your social and professional duties. Somebody is missing his son or daughter, somebody is missing his wife but we can't go back home because in real world you need money and a decent professional life...So we sacrifice, sacrifice of feelings, sacrifice of social duties, sacrifice of love. But still the Indian middle class wakes up every morning, struggles with life, struggles with office boss, struggles with local politics, struggles with everything and comes back home, yet managing a smile on his face, kyunki

"mann mein hai vishas, pura hai vishwaas
hum honge kamyaab ek din"

Thanks for your patient reading
Tinu..

8 comments:

queen's said...

this problem is universal now..bachhe ab budhape ki lathi nahi rahe..khud ki lathi banne me hi zindagi nikal jati hai, i witnessed a similar situation few weeks back, a son could not attend his dying father becoz he could not manage a leave in 7 years from US !!!his father had been suffering from cancer for past 5 years....
2. i, myself...i know how much i had to fight just to manage a leave of 10 days for a mere meeting with my dying granny once for the last time...
its suggested very easily that u balance career and family....but ..ALAS....we r reallt too BUSY for it..those 4 letters of life..

Masood said...

Agree with you. Real world is not an easy place to be. Our priorities are totally mixed up.

Hope your baba is feeling better now.

Unknown said...

amazing ....
hum natmastak hain aapke pita ke aage ,hum toh soochte the aapko guru woh toh aapse bhi aage bhage..
ab toh ho chala sabka jeevan vyapaar ..hum is paar chahne wale na jane kis paar

Tanmay Mukherjee said...

Bujhte paari bondhu! The small town strains..bujhe paari!

Anonymous said...

good 1 sir....quite emotional too....
this is actually very true....
not only this,some people face many other problems where they have to choose b/n their career and other things which are dear to them....but as rightly said by u....career shuldn't be put at stake for nethng..
its not a good option....

Shekhar said...

loved the poem by ur father..
man u hav expressed very nicely the love thats there in a father & son's relationship..wonderful man
great write...

Saurabh Roy said...

Thanks guys..thanks a lot for ur comments and concern..papa was quite happy to see that ppl liked his wrk

gaurav said...

Quite late but really this was a very bad phase of our family... Father who was retired from service.. mother who left her job from school..you just joined tvs motors as fresher...me struggling in recession... We all have seen lots of ups and downs which has made us strong... situations of our life made us helpless..
Hope this will never happen again...
Shanu